Saturday, December 17, 2005

Life n loss

Losing someone is usually very hard to deal with. Somehow it is alot easier to let go of an elderly rather than a young person. I guess cuz when a person is old (i mean like 60+) its like they've had theier time and theyve lived their lives and if their sickly then you sort of expect it. But when people die of accidents and things, then it becomes really hard to accept cuz its not something you expect.
I personally am not afraid of my death.... i'm more afraid of losing my loved ones. I cant imagine coping with losing someone really near and dear. I hope i never have to but thts impossible.
It becomes really important to appreciate those around you and make sure u make them feel appreciated cuz u never know when you might lose them.
Dont take life for granted. Live it up... cuz u never know if you'll be ard tomorrow.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Leukaemia

Today, a friend told me that his 5yr old daughter has Leukaemia and they just discovered this 3 weeks ago. Made me wonder what people do to deserve to suffer so much... especially a young child. Even the family suffers. The poor girl is oblivious to her disease and has been told that her hair falls out just so it will grow back (like teeth). She's undegoing cheimo and because of all the needles and things.... shes got buises all over.
This sort of thing could happen to anyone. Why is it that we never think it can happen to us? Why is life so harsh on some, while some have it pretty easy? Maybe its karma? But dont u have to believe in reincarnation to believe in karma? Why should you suffer now for somethin you did in ur previous life of which u have no recollection?

Anyhow... I like to think that shit happens to the best of us, cuz the dude up there knows that we're the ones that can handle it.

He's just not that into you...

An absolute chick book.... filled with humour and harsh reality. Who wants to hear that "he's just not that into you".... but then again its better knowing the truth than hang on to someone that isnt worth your time.
For me... helped me realise what assholes men can be... but also how great some of them are... cuz they jus dont fit the "bad" criteria.
I totally wish i had this book earlier so that i could have sooner gotten rid of the losers that i came across earlier in my life. But the good thing is that the losers arent still around.. and even tho it took me longer than it should have to get rid of them... i did it... all on my own.
Men should read this book as then they'll know what NOT to do.
The book is absolutely realistic... dont waste time with a man who doesnt deserve it and dont settle for someone who isnt upto your standards.
What i liked most was that the book said that, stick to man who doesnt make u unhappy. Once he starts making you unhappy (if ur more unhappy than happy with him)... u know hes not worth it... and even if you love him... just dump him!
Ladies... if ur not sure abt ur men... this book is a must read!